My husband decided to put up a night there which was lovely except for the fact he wasn't too well and I was worried sick over him as well.
It certainly put a damper to the mood and atmosphere.
He hasn't been well these few months being pretty weak and even went through second mild stroke which was even worrying.
I am one of those people who never really have a wonderful happy birthday with balloons, confetti and surprises. I guess it is not in my fate.